8 Ways to Show Up for Yourself Today
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When people think about self-care, they often picture bubble baths, face masks, or a night off with a good book. And while all of that absolutely has its place, real self-care goes far beyond comfort and pampering. It’s also about taking responsibility for your well-being in ways that may not feel luxurious, but are deeply impactful. True self-care often shows up as discipline, boundaries, rest, planning ahead, or making hard decisions with your long-term health and happiness in mind. It’s not necessarily about what you want to do now, but rather, what you need to do for long term benefits.
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I truly believe that nourishing yourself physically, emotionally, and spiritually is essential to your overall wellness and well-being. That said, today I want to talk about the next level of that, what it really means to show up for yourself. While it's a similar concept, showing up is about committing to yourself even when it’s inconvenient or uncomfortable. It means taking the necessary steps, big or small, that align with the life you want to live. Sometimes, it’s about keeping a promise to yourself, facing something difficult head-on, or making a choice your future self will thank you for. Today, I’m going to share with you 8 ways to show up for yourself today.
8 Ways to Show Up for Yourself Today
1. Show Up for Your Commitments
Sometimes we set plans with the best of intentions, but when the day arrives, we may feel less than thrilled to follow through. Whether you’ve made commitments to work out, eat healthily, or attend a class, enter it in your calendar and honour it as you would any other important appointment. Respecting your own time sends a powerful message to yourself that your goals and priorities matter. Even if motivation is low, showing up with consistency builds confidence and self-trust over time.
2. Show Up to Protect Your Energy
There’s a lot of negativity in the world right now, and some situations and circumstances can feel overwhelming or even draining. If you’re feeling like you can’t take it on today, try to avoid negative people or situations. Alternatively, some people can be very unsupportive of our goals and plans, and it can be best to keep them to yourself. Your energy is a finite resource. Pay attention to who or what leaves you feeling depleted, and make conscious choices about what you allow into your space. This may include saying “no” without guilt, limiting screen time, or surrounding yourself with people who uplift rather than drain you.
3. Show Up for Yourself
This is also in keeping with protecting your energy. When we are rested and feel restored, we are less bothered by other people and negative circumstances. Try to get some extra rest when you can. I always like to say that if you don’t make the time to rest and recharge, your body will make the time for you; and let’s be honest, those times won’t be ideal situations. Resting is not lazy, it is necessary. Take time to check in with yourself daily. How are you really feeling? What do you need more of, or less of, today? Whether it’s rest, reflection, movement, or support, prioritizing your own needs is not selfish, it’s foundational.
4. Show Up for Your Friends and Family
Show up for yourself in social opportunities. It is very easy to isolate, especially if retired, feeling unmotivated, or just busy with life. Spending time with others is an opportunity to give and receive support. Even small interactions, like a phone call, coffee date, or walk with a friend, can help reduce feelings of loneliness and increase your sense of belonging. Relationships require energy and effort, but the reward is a strong, reliable support system for life’s ups and downs.
5. Show Up for Your Health
Show up for yourself medically by keeping doctor’s appointments, dental appointments, and any other appointments you may need. Are you due for a mammogram or a Pap test? Be sure to keep on top of these appointments as well. Have you been feeling low-spirited or have extra worries? Perhaps it’s time to book an appointment with a therapist or counsellor. Health is one of those things we often take for granted, until it’s threatened. Preventative care, mental health support, and listening to your body when it’s calling out for help are all ways of showing up proactively.
6. Show Up for Your Home
Do you need a new roof or need to fix your car? Is your furnace making a weird noise or is your fence starting to rot? These responsibilities are important to prevent further damage in the future. If you know something is on the horizon, make sure you start saving to put yourself in the best financial position possible. Taking care of your physical environment helps create a sense of safety, pride, and order. Whether it’s decluttering a messy room, staying on top of bills, or finally tackling a repair you’ve been avoiding, showing up in this way creates stability and peace of mind.
7.Show Up from a Safety Perspective
Maintaining safety is also a form of showing up for yourself. Are you walking in the early morning without a reflective vest? Are you travelling in a boat without appropriate lifejacket and safety equipment? Make sure that you are ensuring your safety at all times. Taking a self-defence course to give yourself that extra layer of protection when needed is also a great idea. Being mindful of safety is an act of self-respect. It’s not about living in fear it’s about equipping yourself with knowledge and tools to feel more confident and secure in the world around you.
8.Show Up for Your Environment
Keeping up with yard work and housework is a wonderful way to feel your best. Organization and care for one’s home and property can help us to show up not only for ourselves, but for parts of our lives that are very important. A clean, cared-for space can have a big impact on mental clarity and emotional health. When your surroundings reflect order and intention, you’re more likely to feel grounded and capable. Try tackling one small area at a time and celebrate your progress as you go.